genteel /ʤɛnˈtil/ /ʤɛnˈtiːl/
civilized /ˈsɪvəˌlaɪzd/ /ˈsɪvɪlaɪzd/
refined /rəˈfaɪnd/ /rɪˈfaɪnd/
cultured /ˈkʌltʃərd/ /ˈkʌltʃəd/